So many people get stuck in self pity. “I have such an awful life!” “My parents hate me” “my friends always talk behind my back” the list goes on. Then there are those people who, I think, have sort of found what they are looking for in life. If they haven’t, at least they have figured out how to be happy with their circumstances no matter what. Is it a gift or is it simply perspective and what you want to see in life?