After you breakup with someone do you ever try to stay friends with them? No, of course not that’s not even a question that most would consider. Every now and then it just seems to happen though, maybe not right at first but eventually sometimes you can be friends with an ex after awhile and feel natural about it. Maybe there’s even still sexual tension between the two of you but somehow it’s super easy to just talk and relax.
Why couldn’t it have started this way? Maybe it’s just that we think maybe they are the one so we invest in them on some higher level hoping they will invest back but once we pass that phase we can both invest the same amount and become friends.
I have no particular point to this post, simply an observation.